What Do You Really Want?
You’ll need a blank piece of paper or a Word doc open for this exercise
Exercise Outline
Answer all the questions below as openly and honestly as possible. There’s no right or wrong answer, because no one is judging you on your responses. These are YOUR wants and no one else’s. These questions will help you further develop and understand what it is you are trying to achieve with women.
Don’t list physical qualities (e.g. tall, blonde, etc.) This task is designed to help you fine-tune your overall goals when it comes to women.
Why?
Ever heard the saying, “Start with the end in mind?”
You need to figure out where you want to go before you can even begin to go there.
It’s like knowing exactly where you’re driving to before you even get in the car and start the ignition.
So before you can start taking action, you need to know what it is that you want to achieve. Once your intentions are clear, you can begin to formulate your goals and take the necessary steps to achieving them. You are biologically built to be a single-focused hunter… and therefore we need to find your focus.
I will assist you by informing you that your UMBRELLA GOAL should be to be the best version of yourself, because that is what women find attractive.
Now it’s up to you to dig down to find the specifics of goals you want with women. The following questions will assist in establishing your goals.
1: Who are YOU & what do YOU want?
- LIST out the things you want from and with women
- Describe who you are.
Be honest as you list all your positive and negative traits. Make sure you describe what you think you look like. It is important to know yourself intimately so you can attract the type of partner you want
2: Finish the following sentences
- I’m currently the type of guy who…
- The type of man I would like to be with women is…
- Women are…
- I want a woman who…
3: Answer the following questions
- What kind of women do you want to meet?
(No answers about appearance allowed. Good examples are “Women who are really chatty and can hold their own in conversations” vs. “Women who are quieter and enjoy listening rather than dominating conversations”) - What kind of women do you NOT want to meet?
(Again, no answers about appearance. Good examples: “Women who consider shopping their favorite pastime” or “Women who are only concerned with finding a marriage partner”) - What kind of relationship do you want?
Casual? Long-term? Marriage? Options? - Where do you currently meet women?
- What are you ACTIVELY doing to meet women?
- What could you do to get more/better results?
