Before I hand you any of the tools you need, we’ve got to prep you for the job.
This skill set involves revamping your view of yourself and women to start making way toward getting the girls you want in your life.
Remember how in module 1 we did away with all the negative garbage and bad-mouthing you did to yourself?
And how in module 2 we got rid of all your false preconceived beliefs about what women REALLY want?
Well now we’re going to replace all that left-over space with a super-sexy state of mind.
Why this is an important skill set
Having the sexy mindset means having a positive state of mind in regards to who you are and how you view women. It means you were able to dispel all those common myths and mean things you’ve been saying to yourself about yourself and, of course, about women.
And now that the air has cleared, you’ve made room for awesome self-beliefs and great optimism in regards to how you see the female race. You can now reframe your view on getting girls and have an ultra-sexy mindset that EXUDES confidence, charisma, and charm everywhere you go.
You’re clear on what you want, and there’s no stopping you from getting it.
THIS is what draws women in, what attracts them to you without you even trying. It’s what we women all want in a man.
Exercise:
The mindset you need before you approach any woman is that you’re not going to get rejected. You can’t reject a man that puts himself out there and takes a chance. He’s already won!
You can’t put her on a pedestal like she’s the be-all-end-all to your self-worth. Guys with the Sexy Mindset know that if they want a woman, it doesn’t change how they feel about themselves if SHE doesn’t want him in return.
If you want her, OWN IT. And if she doesn’t want you too… hey, that’s fine.
You’re awesome and you know how incredible you are.
So now, I want you to list out 10 reasons why YOU think you’re freakin’ awesome.
This list will help you maintain that confident mindset when approaching any women you want. Once you know how awesome you are, a woman’s looks will no longer be an intimidation factor because you’ll have 10 awesome things about you that outweigh her one.
You can’t list looks… but I want you to write down 10 things that are great about the man that you are today after going through modules one and two already.
Here, I’ll start with the first one:
The first thing that’s ABSOLUTELY awesome about you is that you’re doing this program.
By going through the Crack the Girl Code, you’ve proven that you’re an assertive man who wants to take the time to do the research and gain the skills that most men are way too afraid to do themselves.
YOU are better than most men out there right now who don’t have the balls to take a look at themselves, figure out what they want with women, and do exactly what they need to do to get EVERYTHING they want.
Okay, now write nine other things.
Once you have your list, I want you to print it out out and read it to yourself in front of the mirror. Say it to yourself every day, twice a day. Really own what you’re saying and truly BELIEVE how freakin’ amazing you are.
Dos & Don’ts
Don’t write things that other people have said about you unless you agree with it
Don’t get embarrassed for writing things down that you think other people would agree with
In general, don’t think about anything other people would have to say about you
Only write things down that YOU think make you absolutely awesome!
Make sure to praise yourself for all your proud accomplishments
Write down things that make you who you are and make you unique
Be as specific as possible! Instead of, “I’m nice,” write, “I’m nice because I always hold doors open for people.”
What mastery of this skill will look like
Don’t worry about thinking you’re going to be a big-headed arrogant jerk… because that’s not the case.
The difference between arrogance and being confident is this: arrogance is when you think you’re better than other people. CONFIDENCE, on the other hand, is when you’re proud of who you are
And there’s absolutely no shame in being proud of who you are… especially at this point in the game.
In order to have the proper mindset, you have to know what’s so great about yourself. You have to be sure and confident about the things that make you a guy that EVERY WOMAN would absolutely kill to be with.
The mindset is backed up by this understanding of who you are, what you want, and who exactly you want.
Once you have the sexy mindset, you’ll be able to look at yourself and say, “My name is x and I can have whatever and whoever I want. And if that person doesn’t want me in return, that’s fine, too, because it doesn’t change who I am and what I want for myself.”
